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    Celebrating the life of

    Treva Foss Thoms

    28 Jan 1973 - 09 Jan 2020

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    1990

    Sue Doyscher I remember Treva spending hours/days on this jacket. Hand sewed it all. If you could see the back there was a giant beaded peace sign. Alekz got their moms free spirited style. It’s beautiful to see!

    1990

    Sue Doyscher

    Jun 1993

    Kristen Anderson Selfies before they were “selfies.” Oslo, Norway

    Jun 1993

    Kristen Anderson Oslo, Norway

    1994

    Sue Doyscher At the Cabin

    1995

    Sue Doyscher

    20 Aug 1995

    Sonja Thoms

    I have this memory that has stuck with me of when I ran into you and Jason with tiny baby Wilyem on the sidewalk in downtown Northfield. You were so pleased to introduce me to him and show off your beautiful son. Your eyes beamed with love. I have thought of that moment often. The world is a less worthy place without you in it, Treva. Much less...

    Carrie JohnsonMar 1996
    31 Oct 1998

    Amy Larkin Our wedding was on Halloween so we had to have a skeleton bride and groom!

    31 Oct 1998

    Amy Larkin So blessed to have her as part of our wedding party.

    19 Oct 2013

    Jonas Thoms

    28 Jun 2014

    Jonas Thoms

    10 May 2015

    Jonas Thoms

    13 May 2018

    Sonja Thoms

    23 Nov 2018

    Jonas Thoms

    25 May 2019

    Sonja Thoms

    19 Jun 2019

    Sonja Thoms

    I enjoyed being with you and being your friend. I have so many memories of our day to day life together. Mostly what I remember is being at work together, being out in our yards, our many pets, passing each other on campus and cheering our kids on at school events. I was fortunate to have a friend like you. The last time we were together was righ...

    Betty Geiling11 Jan 2020
    12 Jan 2020

    Karin Laine McMillen

    12 Jan 2020

    Karin Laine McMillen Lincoln Center 2012

    I remember Treva being such a sweet and caring soul. I remember taking vocal lessons from her and her being so encouraging and passionate about music. She gave me the confidence I needed to sing. My most recent memory of her was when I called her two months ago when she was in the hospital. She sounded like she was getting better. I am so saddened ...

    Robert Schmus12 Jan 2020
    12 Jan 2020

    Karin Laine McMillen

    12 Jan 2020

    Karin Laine McMillen Norway 1993

    12 Jan 2020

    Karin Laine McMillen Norway 1993

    12 Jan 2020

    Monika Soto Carnegie Hall 2017

    12 Jan 2020

    Karin Laine McMillen

    12 Jan 2020

    Karin Laine McMillen 1994?

    12 Jan 2020

    Karin Laine McMillen

    12 Jan 2020

    Monika Soto Thoms Family Photos 2016

    12 Jan 2020

    Karin Laine McMillen

    12 Jan 2020

    Karin Laine McMillen Choir Tour 1994

    12 Jan 2020

    Karin Laine McMillen Choir Tour 1994

    13 Jan 2020

    Sue Doyscher 33 yrs ago, 10 yrs ago & 1yr ago. All feel like yesterday. We laughed so much together. Beautiful inside and out!

    David and I did not know Treva well until we had rehearsals for the Carnegie Hall Concert. We learned to love her, to respect her and to listen to her beautiful voice. She is now singing with God's Angels in His Choir!

    Alison Pinsley13 Jan 2020

    Dearest Treva, your beauty and grace will be missed. Prayers and much love for the Thoms family.

    Lisa Decker13 Jan 2020

    Treva was so brave and honest about pretty much everything. I will always remember her wanting to take a chance on me and being such a positive support. I will truly miss her and hope she is finally at piece. xo

    Kathryn Kitt13 Jan 2020

    I met Treva several times during CRunning sessions. At a time, I just got my CR t-shirt which was a bit tight on me, and had asked if I can exchange for a larger size. Without hesitation, Treva was willing to give a shirt off her back to me, a complete stranger. Yes, she was all about giving... We talked about life, family matter, and everything. W...

    Elie Klachkin13 Jan 2020

    She had a beautiful soul and caring heart. She was one of those people who could light up a room without needing to say a word. A memory that comes to mind is when I was taking lessons with her. She was never afraid to ask me about my personal obstacles that I have to overcome on a daily basis but treated me like everyone else and looked past it st...

    Amber LaSante13 Jan 2020
    14 Jan 2020

    Rebecca Ayme

    14 Jan 2020

    Sue Doyscher

    14 Jan 2020

    Sue Doyscher Helping Alekz practice

    I can remember the first marathon Treva and I ran together - RiverTowns. It was a comedy of a marathon looking back on it. It was stupid hot, down hill on the way out up hill on the way back, we kind of broke in to now ex-husbands car to get supplies and back they ran out of water! That was the start of our marathon adventures together with far to ...

    Rebecca Ayme14 Jan 2020
    14 Jan 2020

    Sue Doyscher I love this picture Jason and Treva.

    For the short time I knew Treva I could tell how special she was. I would see her waiting outside of Taylor Hall with Cowbell. We would talk and laugh about how big Cowbell had gotten And about how crazy life is. She was an amazing person to talk to even in the short conversations we had. She added something special in the CCB choir and her voice c...

    Isabel Pregiato15 Jan 2020
    15 Jan 2020

    Monika Soto Getting matching “;” tattoos from the best artist we know, Alekz.

    Treva and I met freshman year at St. Olaf and were roommates until we graduated. I chose St. Olaf because I fell in love with the architecture of the old buildings. I was an English major and one of the classrooms had a beautiful stone fireplace - SOLD! She told me she fell in love the with lovely purple velvet robes that Ole Choir members wore - S...

    Amy Larkin15 Jan 2020
    15 Jan 2020

    Monika Soto November 2016, right after the NYC marathon. Treva posted on Facebook that she was running it and that she would love if people came to cheer her on. She gave me a mini cowbell the day before so I could ring it. I still have it today. I told her we had to take a picture to commemorate her finish. I know she was extremely proud of that moment and seeing her smile in this photo will always make me smile, just like it did that day.

    15 Jan 2020

    Amy Larkin Junior year at St. Olaf. Couldn't get enough of cookie dough either!

    15 Jan 2020

    Amy Larkin Junior year at St. Olaf. Couldn't get enough of Ben and Jerry's Cookie Dough ice cream!

    15 Jan 2020

    Pam Sullivan 3 cousins at a family wedding. I remember Treva as a happy, fun, and energetic child. Love and prayers to all of Treva’s loved ones❤️❤️❤️ Her family loved her very much!

    A virtue I learned in martial arts today was “to what you have grasped before, you cannot let go” May Ms.Thoms carry her strength with her into the Lord’s kingdom. Recognize her worth and beauty. Love herself. Look over us. Find safety. And forever rest in peace❤️❤️❤️

    Janmariz Deguia16 Jan 2020

    Though we only knew each other through making music, Treva, I feel so fortunate to have had those opportunities. You’re a person whose inner light shone bright. You—your voice, your kindness, your beauty, your strength—have left an indelible mark on me. Thank you, and rest well. Jason, I can’t imagine the impact of this tremendous loss. May you an...

    Amanda Sidebottom17 Jan 2020

    Treva, I love you and I miss you. You and I had such great times running together, chatting across the hallway in Liberal Studies Hall at Concordia College New York. I miss the chats on our runs, our trips to Broadway shows with the students. We supported each other, pushed one another. You talked about how you adored and supported each of your chi...

    Jen Roth18 Jan 2020