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    Celebrating the life of

    Eileen Lentz

    04 Dec 1939 - 12 Apr 2022

    Family and friends

    Eileen Rosemary Lentz of Morris Plains, New Jersey, beloved mother and grandmother, passed away in her home on Tuesday, April 12, 2022 at the age of 82. Eileen was a bright, energetic, creative, welcoming and generous person who inspired her family, friends, and community. She is survived and celebrated by her loving children Dean Lentz (Bettina), Christian Parker-Lentz (Joanna) and Katherine Virk... more

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    Eileen was born in St. Louis, Missouri on December 4, 1939 to Barnard Clemens Lindemann and Hazel Eileen Lindemann.

    Katherine Virkstis4 Dec 1939
    4 Dec 1939St. Louis, MO, United States

    Dean Lentz Just arrived home from hospital with mom, Hazel Eileen.

    1942

    Dean Lentz

    1945St. Louis, MO, United States

    Dean Lentz Eileen had a special bond with her father Barnard and spoke very fondly of him throughout her life. He was a photographer and took most of the black and white photographs of Eileen when she was young.

    1945Vandalia, MO, United States

    Dean Lentz With cousins Eugene Baker, Christine, Dixie, & Christian Utterback at grandparent's (Utterback) home. As a young girl Eileen spent many summers at her Aunt Mable’s and Uncle Selby’s farm in Vandalia, Missouri. She remained very close with her aunt, uncle, and cousin Eugene throughout her life. Aunt Mable was Eileen’s mother’s sister.

    1946St. Louis, MO, United States

    Dean Lentz She adored her cousin Eugene Baker. When visiting St. Louis later in life, she frequently made the excursion to Vandalia to visit Eugene and his parents Aunt Mable and Uncle Selby.

    4 Dec 1946

    Dean Lentz 7th birthday party with friends.

    1947

    Dean Lentz One of the many lovely photos taken by her beloved father Barnard.

    1948St. Louis, MO, United States

    Dean Lentz On front steps of home in St. Louis with mother Eileen.

    1954St. Louis, MO, United States

    Dean Lentz With sister Louise.

    1957St. Louis, MO, United States

    Dean Lentz Graduates from Webster Groves High School.

    20 Feb 1959St. Louis, MO, United States

    Dean Lentz Eileen always loved to dance. This photo is from a newspaper clipping we found: "Girls of Gamma Phi Beta lean into the task of putting the final polish on their dance routine in preparation for Bearskin Follies at Kiel Auditorium."

    1961St. Louis, MO, United States

    Dean Lentz Graduates from Washington University

    She graduated from Washington University with a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Fashion Design and spent her early career working in Brooklyn as a clothing designer.

    Katherine Virkstis1961
    1963

    Dean Lentz Moved to Bay Ridge Brooklyn right below the Verrazano Narrows as it was completing construction. Her first job in the city was as a dress designer in Manhattan.

    1975Short Hills, NJ

    Dean Lentz Nottingham Road in the 70’s.

    1975Lake Champlain, VT

    Dean Lentz Sailing on Lake Champlain circa 1975.

    1977Stonington, CT, United States

    Dean Lentz Vacation at Mystic, Connecticut with the Franks circa 1977.

    1980Saint Anton am Arlberg, Tyrol, Austria

    Dean Lentz When each one of her children turned 13, Eileen took each of us to a destination of our choosing so we could experience the world. I chose skiing in the Austrian Alps. In this photo you can see Eileen always enjoyed the beach wherever she went.

    Eileen was an entrepreneur with boundless courage and determination. She started a business in the early 1980s, at a time when less than 10 percent of businesses in the United States were owned by women, and ran it successfully for over 20 years. She was meticulously organized and never afraid to take on a challenge. She had the ability to make pla...

    Katherine Virkstis1980
    1981Rutgers, NJ

    Dean Lentz Eileen was very active with her sorority Gamma Phi Beta throughout her life. She joined the sorority while at Washington University in St. Louis. While living in New Jersey, she became very active in supporting her sisters at the Princeton Alumnae Chapter and Delta Mu Chapter at Rutgers University.

    1983Fire Island, NY, United States

    Dean Lentz Fire Island in the 80’s. Eileen loved the beach and the ocean. She was in her element at the shore. It was her mission to spend as much time at the beach each summer as possible staying at various locations on Long Island, New Jersey, South Carolina, and even Cancun, but it was at Davis Park on Fire Island where we returned year after year and where she created indelible memories for family and friends that were magical.

    1983Greece

    Dean Lentz Traveling through Greece with Christian for his 13th birthday.

    1984Stratton, VT, United States

    Dean Lentz Impromptu fiesta at the house at Stratton. Eileen rented a house in Bondville, Vermont over two winters while Dean was in school there so family and friends could visit, ski, sled (there was a great sledding hill across the road), and celebrate.

    1996Newark, NJ, United States

    Dean Lentz In 1996, Eileen joined the New Jersey Performing Arts Center as their event coordinator and was instrumental in their opening in 1997 and during their formative years.

    4 Dec 1999Maplewood, NJ, United States

    Dean Lentz 60th birthday party.

    Joanna P. The best surprise of the night was us flying in Katherine from school and this is Eileen reacting to Katherine’s arrival. What a night!
    17 Aug 2002Stowe, VT, United States

    Katherine Virkstis Katherine's wedding with good friends, Eileen Paduano, Jane Reidel, and family.

    2003The Bahamas

    Dean Lentz For many years in the 70’s and 80’s Eileen helped to run the Young People’s Fellowship (YPF) program at Christ Church along with her good friend Eileen Paduano. Her mentorship meant so much to so many. Here the “two Eileens”, as they were known, are reconnecting decades later with their old friend Minister Ranfurly Brown.

    Eileen lived in Charleston, South Carolina for more than fifteen years where she developed a network of close friendships and lived out her dream of a coastal life near the beach. She loved to travel with friends to the Northern California wine country, cook for her friends, host wine tastings, and frequently enjoyed the arts, including ballet, mod...

    Katherine Virkstis2005
    27 Nov 2015Millburn, NJ, United States

    Kate Parker-Lentz thanksgiving :)

    21 Jun 2017New York, NY, United States

    Kate Parker-Lentz Grandma came out to our show and the lights on her reading glasses stole the spotlight

    11 Oct 2018Charleston, SC, United States

    Anya Parker-Lentz Grandma took me to one of her Charleston favorites, NICO. Chef Nico sent out a delicious appetizer. Can't remember what else we ate that night, but it was probably amazing.

    25 May 2019New York, NY, United States

    Kate Parker-Lentz Grandma would take Anya and I to El Parador for our birthday every year. Grandma came to NJ for the Merck event she planned every spring so it became tradition that we’d celebrate Anya’s April bday and my May bday whenever grandma was in town for Merck. Even after grandma retired and no longer had to come to New Jersey in the springtime, she still made the trip every year to take us for our classic El Parador dinner, the only dinner that grandma didn’t have wine with. She’d get a margarita or 2 for dinner and a Mexican coffee for dessert. She’d always let me have a sip. The last time we went to El Parador in 2019— when this photo was taken— I was old enough to get my own margarita :)

    Kate P. don't know why this uploaded upside down
    4 Dec 2021

    Dean Lentz 82nd Birthday with caviar!