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Celebrating the life of

Neelam Maharaj

28th February, 1946 - 12th February, 2024
8 entries
  • Raena ReddyMany of the memories that I have of my father include Neelam Bhua, his sister. This link kept my father alive in a sense for me. Neelam was precious to my family also because my father loved her dearly. All his letters are full of care for her making it almost our responsibility to care for her and hers too. This link to my past was also so precious as it was the only source of our family history. She was the most beautiful woman - fiery spirited and protective of her family. Neelam bhua had a way of giving information- she made everything seem like a hidden secret that she was sharing in a hushed tone, below her breath and said very slowly…keeping you waiting! This loss is so huge as my father died again with her. She knew my daily texts were my way of keeping in touch with that that I had lost. I mourn her deeply. May her soul rest in peace. 29th February, 2024
  • Ajay Amar Kashyap"It is better to live your own destiny imperfectly than to live an imitation of somebody elses life with perfection" Bhagvad Gita That is how Neelam lived - on her own terms. Fiercely independent, full of love to give to her family and friends and with immense desire to learn and succeed. Neelam lived amongst us shinning almost alone a star. We spent some wonderful times together. Memories of which will be with me for ever.28th February, 2024
  • Rima Kashyap Where do I start ? Neelam was in her last year of school when I was dating Ashi. We were too busy in our own worlds after that. It was 6 kids later - hers and mine- that we talked of family and cousins and politics. Over the years we became good friends and thank God, we believed in the same politics. I loved meeting her book club and Catalyst friends . Neelum "s intensity about everything amazed me.- motherhood, Laurie, work, friends, her dogs- she was fiercely protective of them all. Thank you Neelum , once again, for admitting me into your world. It is a lonelier place without you. Will miss you.26th February, 2024
  • Vidur Sood I have experience about death because when my brother Bunty (Rahul Sood) died his spirit came to visit me 5 times. 3 times my dog was there and it fell off the bed when the spirit came. So I'm sure Neelam is still well somewhere but not in the same body she used to inhabit. I hope that makes her family feel better although please be certain that i am not trying to give you some cool sounding line .. That being said I was very impressed with the book Neelam wrote about her dad in the army. I really couldn't put it down. It flowed so well and was so clear and I felt wonderful that I was related to this magnificent person. Thank you Neelam for that! I hope you are well wherever you are now. Maybe you are hanging out with Bunty? How cool that would be!25th February, 2024
  • ARJUN KASHYAP24th February, 2024
  • Monika SChweizer-KashyapBooks and politics and family are the bonds I treasure - I wish we had had more in-person encounters but am very grateful to have had the privilege to share insightful thoughts, your passion for justice, your love and compassion. I will miss you. The world is emptier without you but you have left your mark. Much to remember you by ❤️22nd February, 2024
  • Liz and Alison Ramsay and WelshA dear, warm and generous friend of 35 years. Neelam we will miss your company and conversation at our regular lunches. Liz and Alison22nd February, 2024
  • Oliver SpiessOver 30 years of memories will not be erased and you will be missed. We are happy to have shared some new memories with you recently. Our condolences to the entire family and friends. Mary and Oli21st February, 2024